Sometimes words are not enough. Sometimes a girl needs outside help calming down, and getting a little perspective.
Ideally, this means a therapeutic spanking--something gentle that let's her give up the [often significant] responsibilities that she faces during her daily life.
Sometimes it means something more; hopefully a light punishment, but sometimes measures that can include things like mouth soaping.
In my experience these measures are often most beneficial for highly successful women (e.g. medical students, executives) who are perfectionists but grew up without limits. NSFW 18+ ONLY